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The Basics of Chivalry: to be a Gentleman
Part II. . .
Chivalry, good manners forgotten.. . Or is it just hiding, waiting for the right moment to score points. Regardless of the state, it is still one of the true marks of a fine gentleman. And just in case you fancy in your mind your looks absolutely enthrall every thing passing by sporting a few curves let me remind you that good looks come with great manners in a true ladies eyes.
Here's a few pointers, just in case you've forgotten or if you have never learned.
Always open doors. . .
This is perhaps the most basic rule of male etiquette out there. It is also one of the easiest to follow so you have no reason to forget it. Whether she is about to enter your car, restaurant, club, or anyplace with a door, you should always hold it open. If there are many doors, then hold them open one after the other.
Put on her coat. . .
Always help a lady put on her coat or over garment. This is a simple but powerful action.
Help with her seat. . .
If an unaccompanied lady is sitting next to you, it is important that you help her be seated by pulling her chair out for her and gently pushing it back into place, with the lady seated of course.
Give up your seat. . .
If a lady arrives at the table and there are no available seats, you should stand up and offer yours to her.
Stand at attention. . .
Always stand when a lady enters or exits the room. This rule has been somewhat relaxed, so you can stand upon entrance but remain seated upon exit. Nonetheless, if you can do both, you should.
Give her your arm. . .
When escorting a lady (that you know) to and from social events, you should offer her your arm. This is a little more intimate, but serves well when walking on uneven ground -- especially if she's wearing high heels.
Ask if she needs anything. . .
This is one that most guys already do, but helps complete the gentleman in all of you nevertheless. When at social events, make sure to ask the lady if you can get her something to drink (or eat, depending on the event). Show her that you care about her comfort and needs.
Gentlemen, these are the rules of etiquette you should observe in everyday life. Elevate yourself above the rabble and display the mannerisms of a true gentleman. The world will appreciate such a rarity and your career will most definitely benefit from your good manners and savoir-faire.
Be conscious of the fact that women notice what you wear. Dress to create a curious interest and an admiring stare.
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