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Basic Etiquette: to be a Gentleman . . .
In times long-ago, a gentleman was much treasured and being gentlemanly was a fine thing. A person only needs to take a quick look around to surmise that there are very few genuine gentlemen remaining among us.
Regrettably, many things have changed in today's society; however, some for the better and some for the worse. One thing that particularly grates the nerves is the lack of good taste and etiquette most guys are guilty of particularly at the turn of this century.
Some fundamental good manners will go a long way in helping you during your rise to the top.
Here's a quick list of tips that will help turn even the most ungainly dupe into a proper gentleman. Follow these simple tips and I can assure you that people will perceive you as a man of good breeding and taste, therefore a man they wish to associate and conduct business with. Not to mention the fact that the ladies are always quite pleased to meet a real gentleman.
Basic Etiquette
Politeness is key. . .
Even if you don't like someone, there is no need to reduce yourself to their level. Be polite and courteous; show that you're the better man.
Do not swear. . .
Swearing is a big no-no. It shows that you don't have the lexis to express your thoughts appropriately. Furthermore, it is always very crude and impolite to be vulgar.
Keep your voice down. . .
When you speak loudly, it raises the stress level among company. It always implies that you can't reason with people and rely on "brute force" to get your point across. It also draws attention -- negative attention.
Hold that temper. . .
When you lose your temper, you are showing everyone that you can't control your emotions. If you can't even control yourself, then how can you possibly control anything else? Keep your cool at all times (it won't be easy but it is worth the effort) and people will take positive note of your level headedness.
Staring is rude. . .
Ogling someone is the equivalent of psychological aggression. You don't want to intimidate people for no reason.
Don't interrupt
Let people finish what they are saying before adding your comments. Interrupting others is a sign of poor etiquette and a lack of social skills. If you want to come across as egotistical, you can do so by constantly interrupting.
Don't look like a spitting camel
A lot of men do this almost subconsciously. Spitting is very crude and not too pretty to look at. Do not spit in public unless you want to look like you were raised in a sewer.
Respect your elders
In fact, you should respect others as you would like them to respect you. I am specifying elders because it seems that today, young men think they know it all. Well, they don't. Just think of yourself five years ago... you're much smarter and experienced today, aren't you? Of course, yet you thought you knew it all five years ago.
Laughing at others' mistakes shouts serious insecurity. . .
This is perhaps one of the cruelest things one can do. When you mess up, the last thing you want is for someone not only to bring it to your attention, but to ridicule you on top of that.
Take your hat off indoors. . .
This rule seems to have gone out the window these days. You should remove your headwear upon entering a building. Furthermore, never keep your hat on while at the dinner table. It reflects very poor etiquette.
Before you eat let everyone seat and don't rush anyone. . .
When sitting down for a meal, you should wait until all the guests are properly seated and ready to commence the meal before eating. Everyone should start dining at the same time; this is a subtle but very important rule.
Next time the essentials of chivalry. . .
Be conscious of the fact that women notice what you wear. Dress to create a curious interest and an admiring stare.
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